You need to realize that:
1. You can never see a perfect person on earth. Therefore never you expect your spouse to be 100% perfect in character and looks. Everyone has at least one error in him/her.
2. Both you and your spouse came from different families with different home training’s. Therefore, do not expect your spouse to posses exactly all the things, behaviors, norms and values that you like.
- Marriage is a learning Institution where we learn, adapt and adjust to blend with each other.
Quarrels or misunderstanding must surely arise between husband and wife sometimes. It is normal.
A successful marriage requires the maturity, tolerance and patience of both husband and wife.
Therefore, stop searching for a perfect person to marry. Search for a person who can accept you despite your errors, who can tolerate your short comings and who can cope with your characters.